Happy Birthday Neal Schon....

Hi Stephen,

I found a hilarious game that I've been playing online (free).  Here's the link:

http://www.latestcasinobonuses.com/free-games/7red/220/

It's called ROCKSTAR, and it's really fun.  I like playing free casino slot games, every now and then.  I kept thinkin', "So THIS is the lifestyle Steve Perry had for so long...hmmm...he's probably more a wild man than he lets on to be!!" *wink*  I love to think of you as the badass, even if you're really NOT.  I know for a FACT that I am a badass, so I just assume you've got some of that in you too.

Today is Neal's birthday...the old COOT...I hope he will wish to become a better man.  That's all I'm sayin'.  How many more birthdays will he survive, once all his friends and money are gone, I wonder. Ruining marriages and families' lives really is NOT a very admirable trait, I must say.  Maybe some maturity will sneak in somehow, and he may have an epiphany that changes his bad behavior....but I won't hold my breath for THAT to happen anytime soon.

Now, I've been a bit concerned that you may think poorly of me, due to my "secret" that I revealed yesterday regarding the class I plan to teach at camp this year.  I know you are a classy guy, and you prefer classy women...and that kind of behavior may NOT fit in with your definition of "classy lady."

However, before you pass an unfair judgment on me, I wish you could actually SEE camp, and BE at camp, just ONCE, because I really think you might actually change that mind of yours.  The people who go there, are mostly quite wealthy, believe it or not.  That is, it's a bit pricey to go to camp, so the "class" of people who go there are actually quite respectable, high-income, and high-ranking in DC society and politics, they aren't just a bunch of "riff-raff" scumbags, as you may think.

They just love kink.

Crucible is the BDSM club in DC that is exclusive only for people who join as members, but you only GET to join as a member if you help OUT in the BDSM community somehow, whether that's volunteering to work at the club now and then, or donate money to help get more equipment or maintenance for the club, etc., or, if you volunteer to help set up camp.  Pete and I help set up camp, AND donate to them...and when I lived in DC, I would go there quite often to volunteer my time to help clean or set up new stuff, etc.  So, I have been a member of Crucible since 1999.  Pete has only been a member since 2008 when he first met me there, at camp.  Frazier is the man who started the whole thing, and is still the "Head Honcho."  He likes to say he's the dirtiest old man IN the place.

I know most of the people who go to Crucible, though it has been 10 years since I've lived there so there really are quite a lot of new faces.  But the "main group" that I knew best, is the group I belong to, the people who have been involved with it the longest.  I know a lot of the staff personally, and they love Pete and I because of our creativity and enthusiasm for helping out wherever needed, whenever we can.

So, most of the people who do this stuff are in the 1% of the income population, not the 99%.  I don't know if that matters so much to you or not, but it may give you a different perspective.  We are all very respectful of each other, we trust the friendships in the community MUCH more than the average "vanilla friends," and we have a higher level of discreet decorum and even high-class expectations than you might think.

Every year, there is what we call a "High Tea," where everyone who attends must dress up FORMAL, either in a tuxedo, or a gorgeous full-length gown, with a hat, gloves, high heels, etc., and look as fancy as we possibly can.  It's not a cocktail party, it's actually sitting down to have tea, and various biscuits, cookies, and pastries, while the "Sissy Girls," (older men dressed as little girls), serve us all.  That might sound like a freak show to most vanilla people, but it's actually quite nice.  If the server goofs, and gives you the wrong tea, or wrong cookie, etc., or spills a little as they serve, you then have to spank them a couple times.  If they do well, you can reach under their skirts, and ring the bells that are tied to their naughty bits.

Haven't you EVER gone to one of those high-society cocktail parties, wearing a tux, and wishing to GOD you were somewhere else because they are usually so damned BORING??  Believe me, I had to attend those things when I worked in DC, too.  The ice sculptures in the center of the room, the fancy hors' devours, the wine and champagne being served all around, the catered food...the snooty people, the snooty attitudes, the hoity-toity hoi-paloi giving you a hard time......

Well, if you can relate to THAT, don'tcha think that ringing somebody's bells on their naughty bits and/or giving a nice spank to somebody here and there, while enjoying a nice, high-society "tea party," isn't just a LITTLE more FUN??!  Well, I'm here to tell ya, it is.  It really is.

Most of us are a bit spoiled rotten in a lot of ways, too, but it doesn't get used in a negative way at all.  I mean, if we don't like sleeping in a cabin sharing with other people, fine, we can bring our own RV.  If we would rather have a tent of our own, that's cool too.  If we want to bring our own food or just go out to dinner at restaurants instead of at the cafeteria, we have that option as well---though I do have to say that Paul (our chef) is an amazing gourmet cook and we all LOVE his food.

There are all kinds of activities and classes to attend, as well as play parties, swimming naked in the olympic sized pool----it really is like Hedonism Island, only local on the east coast, and it's GREAT. People walk around naked all day long if they want to (though you have to cover the naughty bits at the cafeteria), they can wear whatever costumes or fetish outfits they like, you can dress as pirates, (that's what Frazier loves most), you can give somebody service of some kind to be awarded with "auction money," (and yes, people stand on a stage and auction themselves off too), plus there's a casino night to win more auction money, there's a parade---and a pony show too.  Vendors are also there, selling things from sarong's to wear, naughty t-shirts embroidered for you, fetish equipment (floggers, whips, anal hooks, you name it), collars, jewelry, etc.

It's an awesome 9 days of hedonistic, high-society, adult FUN that you cannot find anywhere else.

So, when I say to you that I may teach a class on how to give great BJ's, it's not some skanky whore in the parking lot of Wal-Mart lookin' to make a buck, ya know what I'm sayin'??  It's much more upscale than that.  It's really difficult to explain to vanilla people, though, because they already have this negative "taboo" vibe goin' on in their heads, from all the conditioning and brainwashing they grew up with.

I just wanted to clarify that with you before you freaked out all over the place about it.  I probably have made the freaked-out feeling worse by going into more detail than you care to know about, but that's a risk I wanted to take, in order to POSSIBLY explain better that what we do is all adult FUN, everyone gets along, everyone pitches in, everyone works together, and is respectful to each other no matter WHAT your kink is.  One thing we always have is a sign at the entrance of camp that says, "NO DRAMA ALLOWED."  And, that's really how it is there.  It's peaceful, serene, relaxing, naughty & most of all, a whole lotta awesome fun!

I mean, go look at the bio for Lew Rubens.  That guy would NOT hang out with riff-raff.  He is one of Frazier's closest friends, and supporters.  He's traveled all over the world, attended many other BDSM clubs, camps, and events---and yet he STILL says that our camp is the BEST, and that's why he attends it every year.  If I were a skanky Wal-Mart parking lot BJ chick, Lew would avoid me like the plague. But he actually suspended me with rope during my kidnapping last year (yes, I even have photos but I cannot post them here on the blog for obvious reasons), and that was a HUGE honor.

So, anyway, I'm still trying to work out the details of this class I'm going to teach.  The instructors are mostly staff, and they've all been doing it a long time....I'm a newbie when it comes to teaching there.  But, like I said, some of the staff have high-ranking DC jobs, and are professionals, and even college professors, etc., so they offered to help me with it.  I'm sure it'll be a very interesting couple of hours!!

Hey, one class I took in 2008, when I met Pete, was "Worshipping the Male Appendage," and I had to bring a male appendage WITH me, but I didn't know anyone--I had gone to camp alone.  So, I wasn't sure I would be allowed to attend the class without a man, and when I mentioned the class to Pete, (who was giving me a massage at the spa)---yessss, we even have a SPA at camp---he volunteered to be my male appendage....and when the class was over, suddenly Pete sat up, and grabbed me, and planted this huge kiss on me!!  I yelled to the instructor, "HEY! How do you shut it OFF?" and everybody laughed.
We were all sitting naked, on mats, with our legs intertwined, and I was learning how to "worship" the male appendage---literally.  Lots of fun exercises and activities you can DO with those things!!  Coconut oil is the most awesome thing in the WORLD to use for this type of activity....in case you didn't already know that....so we heat up some coconut oil, and start playin' with the appendage, and worshipping it.

Now, if THAT sounds fun, then you may have opened your mind a little bit more than most vanilla people can, and for that I am glad.  If you're STILL freaked out, well, sorry, this is who I am.  I have no shame, no remorse, no regrets, and I am FREE to be who I am and what I am, and nobody can take that away from me.  It is the most liberating place in the whole world, which is why everybody LOVES it.

Ah well, I wish I could show you in person, I wish you could see it.  I wish you could experience it.  Maybe you already go to your own type of adult camp, or events....I don't know....but this one is SWEET, and I count the days down all year long until that first camp date is on the calendar.  There is a web site, in case you want more info, that you can check out if you are curious...you could take your lady friend there, too, IF she has an open mind about things like this...(if she doesn't, I recommend you skip it, because she'll run out the door screaming in terror and you may never see her again).

Some people just cannot handle it.

www.CampCrucible.com

I gotta scoot, but I hope you had a nice Monday.  Mine has been spent mostly cleaning the house. BLEAH....but thinking about camp and losing weight to be at my best while I'm there, is keeping me happy!!

Bye for now.

Love, Rebecca